Vivacious Sub seeks erudite Dom.
Me: Overeducated professional by day, pervert by night. Nested with adorable kiddo, amicably separating from platonic co-parent.
In the long haul, I seek nesting partnership in a tenure-track D/s or DD/lg relationship. I want to be a bonsai tree for the right gardener. At the moment, I’m looking for meaningful connections only with folks who don’t have an existing primary.
If this is you, let’s have a drink and see if you can beat me at Frogger.
Love literature (SFF, Victorian, postmodern, Booker winners), theatre (Mamet to musicals!), banter, dignity (sometimes), honesty (always), fancy coffee, weird concerts, tea that tastes like dirt. Giant geek who closes out the board game cafe semiregularly, and would like to know which Star Trek captain your dominance style most lines up with. Celiac. Wil Wheaton and Ira Glass are my secret BFs.
In bed, I love intensity. Extreme bondage, deeply psychological play, hypnosis, catharsis, transformation, and taboo. Let’s slow dance with me in a straitjacket.
Out of bed, I love artsy adventure dates, and coziness. Let’s go to a poetry slam, a cocktail class at the botanical garden, a *** mystery dinner, or let’s just drink tea and do crosswords.
I am looking for someone intellectual and intentional, with energy, passion, perversity, intentionality, and commitment to the bit. A strong sense of morality, and an unwavering commitment to consent-based relationships are mandatory. Like a vampire, you’ll have to be invited in.
Check out my profile on FetLife (dormouse) and message me there.
Failure to use full sentences and punctuation make it overwhelmingly likely I will ignore you.